If you’ve ever looked up the energetic meaning of any kind of gum problem in Louise Hay’s classic book, You can heal your life, you will have read that gum symptoms indicate… indecision.

Sure, that’s a catchy slogan for understanding the spiritual meaning of gums, but gums are physically and metaphysically more complicated than that simple phrase suggests! It also has never resonated with most of my coaching clients with gum issues. The truth is, there are myriad ways gums can go wrong, and many nuanced interpretations for those symptoms.

 

 

What do your gum symptoms mean?

There are four main types of gum tissue, gingiva, periodontal ligaments, cementum, and alveolar bone. Each type of tissue can present particular symptoms and are open to specific interpretations.

This is the second article in a four-part series about metaphysical interpretations for gum problems based on the approach to interpreting gum recession, bone loss and other gum symptoms that I originally described in my book, The Secret Lives of Teeth: Understanding emotional influences on oral health

The first article focused on gingiva and symptoms on the surface of the gums such as bleeding and inflammation. The third article is about cementum and gum pockets, The fourth article is about alveolar bone and bone loss.  This article focuses on periodontal ligaments and thinning or saggy gums.

What are periodontal ligaments


​Periodontal ligaments are strong stretchy fibers that surround each tooth root like a sling that softens the impact of chewing and biting. When they are healthy, the ligaments provide padding between the tooth root and the thin alveolar bone of the tooth socket.


Physically, the ligaments are more dynamic than cushions though, as they absorb and distribute impacts like a car’s suspension.

Metaphysically, the periodontal ligaments provide an energetic buffer against shocking pressures from the outside world.

What periodontal ligaments are saying

Problems with your periodontal ligaments tend to show up as saggy, receding or thinning gums, although the ligaments can also be affected by inflammation and infection.
Like almost all oral health issues, the ligaments’ symptoms relate to self-expression. Periodontal ligaments may represent your capacity to communicate effectively and use appropriate language for whatever context you find yourself in.

Adapting with grace​

It’s not uncommon for periodontal ligaments to weaken when you have to adapt yourself to changing circumstances. As a natural oral health coach, I’ve noticed that many of my clients with periodontal ligament issues come from immigrant families, or have immigrated themselves as adults.
Others have left the strict church they were raised in and learned to get along in a secular lifestyle. Both kinds of experiences meant that they’ve had to navigate some significant challenges of adapting to a culture that’s vastly different from how they were raised.

Feeling worthy of support

Thinning gums could also embody situations when you have been unable to advocate effectively for your own interests. Loose gums can be understood as the physical expression of an ongoing, perhaps unconscious, belief that you don’t feel worthy of support.
One of the ways I’ve observed this is with some of my BIPoC (Black/Indigenous/People of Color) clients with thinning gums who grew up (or still live)  in overtly racist communities. Their symptoms can be understood as a physical embodiment of internalized racism such as an incessant erosion of their sense of self by microaggressions and the necessity of constant code switching.
This applies to people with other kinds of marginalized identities who have learned to live with systemic oppression. If you have to constantly tolerate disrespect, exclusion and invisibility, it can wear out your belief that you deserve better. This kind of trauma can be embodied as periodontal ligaments that stretched until they lose elasticity.

Supporting your periodontal ligaments

Gum problems rarely have a single cause, and may not occur in isolation from other oral health or general health issues.  The best way to help stabilize and reverse thinning or sagging gums is with a combination of metaphysical and physical strategies. 
Periodontal ligaments thrive with the right balance of mineral- rich, nutritient-dense foods along with oral posture exercises which strengthen the tissues.
Those kinds of physical home remedies are often more effective when you also address the underlying emotional and energetic needs being expressed through your gums. 
A multifaceted holistic approach can help to heal your periodontal ligaments over time: stabilizing and reversing recession, tightening soft swollen gums, and providing stability for teeth without surgical interventions.
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The Secret Lives of Teeth

Learn how to interpret the metaphysical messages of your teeth and gum symptoms!

The Secret Lives of Teeth is a clear and comprehensive guide teaches you a unique, complementary self-help approach to easing toothaches, enhancing enamel and gum remineralization and getting better results with necessary dental treatments. 

Available as a paperback or ebook.

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Has a dentist told you that your cavities or receding gums are your fault because you are drinking too much Coke, you don’t floss enough or you need to stop breastfeeding your baby? And you know that isn’t true!

I’m a natural oral health coach and I’m not going to blame you or shame you.
The underlying causes of your oral health issues are not your fault!

Nature or nurture, ancestry or environment, free will or systemic oppression, unconscious emotions or the degraded food system are the factors that make your teeth and gums vulnerable to disease.

Even though your tooth decay and gum disease is not your fault, it is within your power to change.

I can help you to turn your oral health around with natural strategies, healthy habits and intuitive insights. 

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