Dry Socket prevention and treatment

Dry Socket prevention and treatment

If there’s one dental phrase that is even more scary than ‘root canal’ it is probably ‘dry socket’.

Dry socket is a rare but extremely painful complication that can follow tooth extraction.

As well as the immediate, extreme, pain which can last days or even weeks, there may also be long term consequences: cavitation, which can take decades to develop under the extraction site.

For you to avoid dry socket, I think it’s helpful to understand the stages of healthy recovery that most people experience when dry socket doesn’t occur.

How to prevent dry socket

Healing after an extraction- without complications

Dry socket is a painful complication that can occur after a tooth extraction. As well as the immediate, extreme pain which can last days or even weeks, there can also be long term consequences: cavitation, which can take decades to develop under the extraction site.

For you to understand what causes dry socket, I think it’s helpful to explain the stages of healthy recovery which most people experience, when dry socket doesn’t occur.

Content warning: If you are squeamish about blood and graphic body processes, you might want to skip the following paragraphs and start reading again at the next heading (How to avoid dry socket).

Ideally, the socket should bleed freely during and for a short time after a tooth extraction. Once the procedure is finished, your body starts slowing the blood flow so that a clot starts to form, starting from the bottom of the socket. Eventually, a jelly-like plug fills the hole left by the tooth root. Where it’s exposed to the air and your oral microbiome, the top surface of this soft clot forms a dry scab within 2-3 days. The scab eventually dissolves or falls off in 1-2 weeks once the danger of infection has passed. At that point, you can be confident that your bone and soft gum tissues are actively regenerating to fill the socket.

During a healthy recovery from extraction, you should be able to see a black spot on the extraction site from about the third day. This black spot gets smaller day by day, perhaps also getting lighter in colour. It usually disappears completely between 7-14 days.  

Aren’t bodies amazing? Now that I’ve explained how your body forms a healthy clot that should stay in place until it naturally dissolves or falls out, keep reading to find out how to ensure that happens.

 

What is dry socket?

Dry socket occurs when something interrupts any stage of the natural healing process described above.

This might happen if :

  • the blood is unable to flow freely during and immediately after the extraction.
  • something prevents the clot from growing properly from the base of the socket to the top.
  • the scab is disturbed before it naturally dissolves or falls off.

These disruptions to the body’s natural healing process leave nerves and bone exposed inside the socket.

Bits of food, drifting bacteria or other loose materials can enter the socket and cause irritation, inflammation, or infection.

Bacteria reaching the bone can lead to cavitation, ie a hole inside the jaw bone, although this usually doesn’t become noticeable for some decades.

Home remedies for dry socket

How to avoid dry socket

Whenever I talk to anyone who is getting a tooth extracted my intial advice is always ways to avoid dry socket. Most of these recommendations are common sense. However, because most people don’t experience complications, I think that common sense is sometimes taken for granted!  Even if you are feeling  completely fine after an extraction, you should still take extra care to avoid dry socket, which can get triggered at any point before the scab falls off (7-14 days).

Ask your dentist not to use the drug Epinephrine during your procedure (some dentists routinely inject it with the local anaesthetic). It’s an adrenaline-type of medication which can slow bleeding and interfere in the body’s natural process for forming a healthy clot. Every dentist should be flexible about this, for patients who can’t tolerate adrenaline.

Make sure you follow your dentist’s instructions for aftercare, which are intended to help you to avoid dry socket. In addition I recommend:

Scheduling at least 24 hours to rest and recuperate: You may have a very easy experience in the dental chair and feel fine afterwards, but losing a tooth is still a big adjustment for your body. Immeditately post-extraction is not the time to do any exercise, including walking more than the length of the carpark or to the bus stop. If possible you should avoid lifting anything heavy, especially wriggly children.

Avoiding ‘bitsy’ food until the clot is gone: Stick to liquids for the first 24 hours, then eat soft smooth food for at least another couple of days. After day 3 you can start eating chewier food if you want but don’t eat food with little bits, like rice, rolled oats, chopped parsley, or nuts and seeds. Avoid any foods that might scratch at the clot like chips or toast. Avoid very hot or very cold food or drinks and carbonated drinks.

Don’t suck, squirt, or swish anything in your mouth until the scab is completely gone: That means don’t smoke or vape, drink through a straw, don’t oil pull, don’t use a mouthwash or water flosser, and don’t French kiss or give oral sex until the site has healed over and you can’t see the clot anymore.

Farewell to a tooth guided meditation

 What to do with dry socket 

You’ll know if you have dry socket because your jaw will hurt with a deep bone ache, maybe worse that any toothache you’ve had before. It’s often a bad kind of pain that doesn’t respond to over-the-counter painkillers.  It can keep you awake, rob your concentration and make you sad and cranky.

  • Continue with the recommendations above for avoiding dry socket.
  • Rinse your mouth gently with warm salty water after every time you eat, but don’t vigorously swish it around your mouth.
  • Be careful with what and how you eat, in order to keep the dry socket clean and avoid it getting worse.
  • Be very careful brushing the teeth closest to the dry socket.
  • Drink lots of water and herbal teas to stay well hydrated.
  • Above all, do not smoke or vape or use other tobacco products.

If you do have dry socket, I recommend going back to the dentist or endodontist both to get help with the pain and to rule out other complications. A good dentist will treat your dry socket very seriously.

Your dentist can give you prescription pain killers which should give some relief. They can also flush out anything in the socket (e.g. food debris or other loose material) which may help to ease the pain and speed your healing. If appropriate they may pack the socket with a medicated paste and cover it with a dressing. You might find they recommend another visit in a couple of days.

 

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Extraction energetics

If I can help a client avoid a tooth extraction I will do my best. But if they decide that it’s the best option I will do everything I can to help make it an easy, uncomplicated experience. A ‘good’ tooth extraction can not only lift a physical burden but also be a portal for emotional healing.

Whether you want my help to avoid losing a tooth, or you’ve resigned yourself to a necessary tooth extraction, working with the emotional meaning of a crisis point in a tooth’s life can be profoundly transformative.  

Before an extraction, I can help you make confident informed decisions, help you have the easiest, least complicated extraction you can, with no dry socket, while caring for your whole mouth and body holistically, and set yourself up for a lifetime of oral health from here onwards.

After an extraction, if you are dealing with dry socket or another complication, I can help you identify and address any underlying emotional or energetic messages that these symptoms are carrying.  Sometimes it can make a difference just to have someone offer support, sympathy and comfort.

Where ever you are on the road through a tooth extraction, I invite you to consider starting a coaching package customised to start where you are now and help get your teeth and gum health to where you want it to be.

To find out which coaching option is most suitable for your circumstances, book a free assessment call. I will always give you my honest opinion about whether I think I can help and how much coaching you’ll need.  (Limited appointments available to suit UK and Europe time zones here).

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Nature or nurture, ancestry or environment, free will or systemic oppression, unconscious emotions or the degraded food system are the factors that make your teeth and gums vulnerable to disease.

Even though your tooth decay and gum disease is not your fault, it is within your power to change.

I can help you to turn your oral health around with natural strategies, healthy habits and intuitive insights. 

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How to avoid overtreatment in dentistry

How much dentistry is too much?

A controversial new article (published in JAMA and summarized more accessibly in Ars Technica) highlights how many standard practices taken for granted in dentistry are not evidence-based. It offers a convincing argument that there is a widespread tendency to overdiagnosis and excessive treatment in dentistry.  

The authors explain (for example) that there is no evidence to support scaling and polishing treatments for adults without periodontitis being so common, and that there is often no benefit from filling cavities in baby teeth.  

 

How to avoid over treatment at the dentist
 

The reason for this trend to overdiagnosis and overtreat is economic pressures on dental practices. The article traces the origins of recommending frequent, regular checkups and cleanings for everyone back some 30-40 years ago when patients started to present with fewer cavities (attributed by the article to fluoride toothpaste or I would argue, a generational shift to better brushing habits).

With less demand for drilling, filling and billing dentists’ needed a more reliable source of income to cover ballooning student loans, increasingly expensive equipment and inflationary overheads. Hence the now normal expectation of 6 monthly checkups and cleanings despite a lack of evidence for their benefits. With this reliable income model in place, dental practices have become an attractive investment for corporate investors who inevitably prioritize profit above evidence-based patient well-being. 

 

 

On the other hand, the fee-for-service, profit-for-shareholders economic model of most dental practices makes necessary dental treatment inaccessible for many people, especially in low income marginalized communities. Thus, some of us are getting too much dental care, and others get too little or none at all. 

In my experience, many of us end up stung by both sides of the problem. When you can’t afford preventative dental care, you are vulnerable to excessive treatment when you finally present in a crisis, because urgent pain undermines your ability to make wise decisions.

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Infuriating as it is to read dentistry’s shortcomings described so clearly, it’s nonetheless affirming that mainstream dental/medical discourse might finally start taking seriously what my clients and I, and probably you, have known for years. We are more used to dental professionals gaslighting our lived experience of over diagnosis and excessive treatment than to witness any serious discussion in the mainstream.

Every week I speak with people who are dealing with the fallout of dentists finding problems where there are none and/or inflicting unnecessary and irreversible interventions. Almost as often I hear from people who are in a terrible crisis because they could not access the dental care they desperately want and need. 

While there doesn’t seem to be a realistic solution to this problem right now, as it is so deeply entrenched in almost every part of the world, talking about it openly is surely the first step.

How to avoid overdiagnosis at the dentist

Fortunately there are individual dentists who are ethical and buck the trend to excessive interventions. But as patients we can also become more discerning about the treatment we accept. Patient expectations for more evidence-based practices could be an essential element of a movement towards change. 

A significant number of my coaching conversations involve figuring out whether to follow a dentist’s recommended treatment plan. Navigating your way between the risks of overtreatment vs risks of undertreatment can feel overwhelming, and sometimes the more you know, the harder it becomes to make a decision.

My approach to these discussions is to interrogate the clinical assessment AND ask questions that take in the wider picture of, not only your dental history, but your current circumstances and future goals.

I will give you my honest opinion but I won’t make your decisions for you.

I will support you, not only as you explore and consider all your options, but also through the process of whatever you decide to do.

If you are contemplating a significant dental procedure, or series of procedures and you aren’t sure what is the best way forward, coaching will give you clarity and confidence.

These are important decisions with short term costs and long term consequences. It can make all the difference to have an impartial, informed, supportive coach on your side while you figure out your next steps.

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I’m a natural oral health coach and I’m not going to blame you or shame you.
The underlying causes of your oral health issues are not your fault!

Nature or nurture, ancestry or environment, free will or systemic oppression, unconscious emotions or the degraded food system are the factors that make your teeth and gums vulnerable to disease.

Even though your tooth decay and gum disease is not your fault, it is within your power to change.

I can help you to turn your oral health around with natural strategies, healthy habits and intuitive insights. 

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Best ways to clean food traps in teeth

Food traps are places in your mouth where food particles can get stuck. They can appear on any tooth surface or in the gums. The trouble with these nooks and crannies of your mouth is that trapped food encourages the kinds of bacteria that can cause tooth decay and gum disease. In a clean mouth those types of bacteria can exist without causing trouble, but as soon as there’s old food lying around they get to work making trouble.

Taxonomy of Food Traps

  • Spaces between teeth
  • Large or small cavities,
  • Chips, cracks,
  • Broken fillings,
  • Naturally occurring grooves on the occlusal (chewing) surfaces of molars
  • Gum pockets
  • Braces
  • Removable dentures
taxonomy of food traps

How to tell if you have a food trap

You are probably aware of the most problematic food traps in your own mouth. Those spots where a fragment of carrot, a wad of chewed bread or a strand of celery often seems to get stuck. It nags at your attention after a meal, a tiny speck of leftovers that feels much bigger than it really is. You worry it with your tongue or poke at it with your fingernail but that’s not usually enough to get rid of that persistent feeling of something’s not quite right. Even if you get the most uncomfortable chunk of food out of the trap, an imperceptible residue can remain as an endless buffet for bacteria.

You may be better off getting a dental restoration to fill in the food trap, especially if there is active decay. Depending on the nature of the food trap, holistic healing strategies may help to resolve it eventually.

However, if you can’t (or won’t) close the food trap immediately, you can mitigate its risks by keeping your mouth spotlessly clean at all times. The best way to discourage the unhelpful bacteria staking out your food traps is to analyze those problem areas in your mouth, figure out the best way to keep each different kind of food trap clear and then get in the habit of deploying the most effective cleaning methods after every time you eat.

 

Best ways to clean food traps

 

Water flosser (oral irrigator) – best all round tool for all kinds of food traps, especially deep cavities and braces. Just don’t angle it straight into a gum pocket. When you are eating away from home, consider getting an inexpensive manual irrigator that is small enough to carry around for a discreet squirt in the bathroom after eating.

 

Intraoral brush (Pixter) – good for cleaning food traps in gaps, cavities or chips between teeth. They come in a range of sizes, so use the right size brush for each food trap and wash between uses.

 

Floss  – convenient for removing food from between teeth with tight contacts. Avoid plastic- coated floss (Oral B and the like) as these can embed microplastics in your gums, make sure you your flossing technique is safe and avoid using floss picks.

 

Oil pulling – can be effective especially if you have food trapped in a lot of parts of your mouth. Avoid oil pulling if you have amalgam or new fillings.

 

 

4 ways to clean food traps

Dodgy approaches to food traps

 

Toothpicks are not ideal because they can pack food deeper into a food trap. If you must use a toothpick, be very gentle and avoid poking your gums. Always use a fresh clean tip and toothpicks after one use.

Fingers and finger nails shouldn’t be used because they can spread germs, break up the food fragments or pack them in deeper.

Food traps
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Has a dentist told you that your cavities or receding gums are your fault because you are drinking too much Coke, you don’t floss enough or you need to stop breastfeeding your baby? And you know that isn’t true!

I’m a natural oral health coach and I’m not going to blame you or shame you.
The underlying causes of your oral health issues are not your fault!

Nature or nurture, ancestry or environment, free will or systemic oppression, unconscious emotions or the degraded food system are the factors that make your teeth and gums vulnerable to disease.

Even though your tooth decay and gum disease is not your fault, it is within your power to change.

I can help you to turn your oral health around with natural strategies, healthy habits and intuitive insights.

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Vanishing Twin Tooth

Vanishing Twin Tooth

CW: The following article about lost twins includes mention of miscarriage and stillbirth. Be kind to yourself if this is a sensitive topic for you.

A lost twin and or vanished triplets may be more common than most people suspect.

Some, like Elvis Presley, got to spend their whole prenatal life snugged up in the womb with a sibling, only to lose their twin at birth.

Many more, like me, were conceived with a twin who died before anyone suspected their existence. To be conceived a twin and born a single baby is called Vanishing Twin Syndrome.

For a long time my only clues were an inexplicable sensation of loss and guilt that suffused my childhood. As puberty hit, I thought I was going mad with vivid otherworldly visions. In my early 20s with a meditation practice and therapeutic support I found relief when I could understand those visions and emotions as as prenatal memories.

Around 29, at the time of my Saturn Return, I had an unnecessary root canal in a perfectly healthy tooth 18. Due to a dental misadventure, one root canal turned into two root canals which soon both failed. Repeatedly. These lower left twin molars (teeth 18 & 19) ended up getting extracted (you can read the whole story in my book, The Secret Lives of Teeth).

It’s only in retrospect that I can interpret the metaphysical meanings of those troubled teeth, let alone understand them in the context of my unique framework of Tooth Archetypes.

Conception Tooth #18 Vanishing twin

The Secret Lives of Teeth

At the heart of my book, The Secret Lives of Teeth, are thirty-two detailed descriptions of archetypes that sum up the unique energetic imprint of each adult tooth. I developed these archetype descriptions from working with coaching clients to understand the metaphysical messages carried by symptoms in different parts of their mouths.

The Tooth Archetype for the lower left second molar is Conception. Symptoms in tooth 18 may be trying to reconnect you with a sense of unified love and ecstasy of your existence before birth.

As I wrote in my book, symptoms in tooth 18 are primarily communicating your relationship as a fetus/embryo with your mother, via the placenta. Ideally this all-encompassing connection was your original experience of human bonding. As such it is also mapped onto the relationship between your conscious mind and physical body.

However, since publishing The Secret Lives of Teeth, I’ve also found a connection with Vanishing Twin (or Triplet) Syndrome. Over my years as a holistic oral health coach, I would often have a breakthrough in my understanding of certain tooth archetypes when the same tooth would come up for discussion with several clients within a short time. This happened again a few months ago with tooth 18, the lower left second molar that I call the Conception Archetype.

The Secret Lives of Teeth cover

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Learn how to interpret the metaphysical messages of your teeth and gum symptoms!

The Secret Lives of Teeth is a clear and comprehensive guide teaches you a unique, complementary self-help approach to easing toothaches, enhancing enamel and gum remineralization and getting better results with necessary dental treatments. 

Available as a paperback or ebook.

Secret Tooth Archetypes

Tooth Archetypes are like job descriptions. The Tooth’s Archetype is a role that stays as potential rather than presence unless the Archetype is activated. Then the job starts to actually get done and the role is filled. 

Tooth Archetype’s gets activated by your experience with three ‘S’s’: Silence, Secrets or Suppressed emotions. When one of the ‘S’s’ affects the qualities of a Tooth Archetype, that tooth may eventually, or immediately, start to try to get your attention.

Most people will only become aware of a tooth asking for attention when symptoms flare up i.e. decay or cavities, sensitivity or toothache, bleeding or receding gums. 

However, when you really pay attention to your mouth, you can become aware of a Tooth Archetype activating before it turns into a physical symptom.  You might be aware of a buzzing or tingling feeling, a sense of fullness, or just a feeling that is hard to describe in or around your tooth. 

The earlier you can engage with an activated Tooth Archetype, the easier it is to avoid, stabilize or even reverse damaging symptoms in your mouth. 

 

Tooth Archetypes

Lost Twin and Conception Archetype

Your lower left second molar may present with symptoms when something activates unconscious memories from your time in the womb. If the emotional energy of your mother around the time of your conception, as well as through the pregnancy and birth was influenced by secrecy, suppressed emotions or silence that could help explain later issues with tooth 18. 

For example, if you were an unplanned baby, or your parent’s circumstances were difficult, this tooth could be asking for attention. Tooth 18 can be vulnerable to feeling that you are unwanted, your timing is off, or that you are not good enough to belong.

Or maybe your tooth is reminding you of a vanished twin or lost triplet, asking for you be explore that experience and release any stuck emotions.  As a child you may have tried to explain feelings or ideas which could be related to a lost twin, but been shut down. Symptoms in tooth 18 may even be embodying resonances from an older sibling who was miscarried or stillborn, especially if they were never mentioned

The strength of this tooth is feeling an unconditional sense of being welcomed and loved, and believing your body is worthy of care.   You can support your tooth by sending it loving thoughts while you brush and floss every day. 

When you have current issues with your lower left second molar, you may decide to explore your prenatal life with meditation, journalling, counseling conversations, or other kinds of therapeutic practices. Develop a Healing Story for this tooth, which connects its metaphysical meanings with the unique circumstances of your early life, and current events.

If you can, ask your parents about the circumstances of your conception and pregnancy.

  • How was your mother’s emotional and physical health while she was carrying you?
  • Had she lost a baby to miscarriage, still birth or adoption before you were conceived?
  • Was there any sign (such as breakthrough bleeding) that you may have lost a twin?
  • Did she feel well supported during the pregnancy by her partner, family, friends, neighbors, and workplace?
  • Were there distressing world events or local news that made her feel unsafe or unsettled while pregnant with you?

Learn more about healing with Tooth Archetypes

Every single adult tooth has an Archetype, and there is a lot more to each Tooth Archetypes than even the discussion in this article. The Tooth Archetypes descriptions and framework are at the heart of my book, The Secret Lives of Teeth: Understanding emotional influences on oral health.

The Secret Lives of Teeth goes beyond the ‘spiritual meanings’ of teeth to engage with the oral effects of generational trauma, personal stress and adaptive emotional patterns.

It includes:

  • A unique and user-friendly system of Tooth Archetypes to guide you through the emotional landscape of your mouth explaining each adult tooth’s vulnerabilities and strengths.
  • An exceptionally in-depth explanation of Mouth Meridians, with a layperson’s guide to working with their energies.
  • A directory of Symptoms as Messengers to help translate the underlying influences on symptoms including abscesses, bruxism, cracks and chips, gingivitis, plaque, root canals, and receding gums.
  • A toolkit of self-help exercises to make it easier to develop a Healing Story which works with your symptom’s messages, to relieve symptoms and free yourself from shame and fear about your mouth.

 

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The Secret Lives of Teeth

Learn how to interpret the metaphysical messages of your teeth and gum symptoms!

The Secret Lives of Teeth is a clear and comprehensive guide teaches you a unique, complementary self-help approach to easing toothaches, enhancing enamel and gum remineralization and getting better results with necessary dental treatments. 

Available as a paperback or ebook.

Listen to Your Teeth

Listen to your teeth

Listen to your teeth: Mapping the metaphysical messages from your mouth is a FREE online masterclass (all value, no fluff) that will teach you how to make sense of what your teeth and gums want you to know.

In this FREE Masterclass you’ll get:

  • metaphysical maps of your mouth
  • a manifesto for metaphysical healing
  • a guided visualisation to listen to your teeth
  • healing with metaphysical messages
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Has a dentist told you that your cavities or receding gums are your fault because you are drinking too much Coke, you don’t floss enough or you need to stop breastfeeding your baby? And you know that isn’t true!

I’m not going to blame you or shame you.
The underlying causes of your oral health issues are not your fault!

Nature or nurture, ancestry or environment, free will or systemic oppression, unconscious emotions or the degraded food system

These are the factors that make your teeth and gums vulnerable to disease.

Even though your tooth decay and gum disease is not your fault, it is within your power to change.

You can turn your oral health around with natural strategies and healthy habits.

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Safely remove amalgam fillings

Safely remove amalgam fillings

What are amalgam fillings?

Amalgams are metal fillings that look silver when they are placed but soon turn a dark color that contrasts with the white enamel of your natural teeth. They are made out of an amalgam (blend) of different metals that can include silver, zinc, copper, tin, and mercury (usually about 50%). Amalgam fillings aren’t placed in adults as often as they used to be, so if you have one, it may be almost as old as your teeth.

The older the amalgam, the more likely it is to be leaching toxic mercury vapour into your body. The mercury in amalgam fillings can be released through wear and tear on the filling or the surrounding tooth, from oil pulling or even hot liquids. Visible signs that your amalgam filling may be compromised include the biting surface looking shiny (from clenching or grinding), cracks, chips, staining, or decay in the surrounding tooth.

Some people get very ill from mercury exposure and others can seem to cope with it for a long time. Your susceptibility to mercury toxicity is influenced by genetics, so not everyone will have the same level of reaction.

Nonetheless, amalgam fillings leaking mercury have been linked to the (usually) gradual or subtle development of gum problems, candida, neurological issues, fatigue, breathing difficulties, joint pain, skin rashes, kidney dysfunction, and gastro difficulties to name a few of a long list of possible symptoms of mercury poisoning. (ref)

Mercury can accumulate in the body from multiple sources, so if you’ve been exposed to mercury from eating fish or in your environment, that can build up along with any mercury leaching from your fillings. 

 

 

Safely removing amalgam fillings

Do you need to remove your amalgams?

The greatest risk of exposure to mercury poisoning from amalgams is actually while the amalgams are being removed from a tooth. 

You can get really sick if it isn’t done correctly.  The risk is less if the whole tooth is removed intact, but then you have lost a tooth, which should be avoided if possible.

As long as your amalgam filling is stable and you have no symptoms of mercury poisoning, then you may be better off leaving it in place for the moment.

Tests (e.g. hair, urine, EAV) can confirm whether you have mercury buildup in your body. Tests are also important to indicate the pace at which fillings can be removed safely. Your amalgam-removal dentist should first test to see if your body chemistry and organs are able to handle an amalgam-removal procedure

 

Who should remove your amalgams?

It’s really important to make sure your dentist has the specialist training and equipment to do the procedure safely. 

The dentist should protect you during the removal procedure with equipment including

  • a nose mask for breathing oxygen
  • a rubber dam to isolate the filled tooth from the rest of your mouth
  • a cool electric drill to avoid damaging the pulp.
  • a lot of water during the drilling to capture particles and keep your tooth cool
  • special intra oral high speed suction (a specialised high veolcity vacuum cleaner with the opening placed very close to your moth to help take away any vapors and particles that the intra oral high speed suction may have missed
  • air filters in the treatment room

Your dentist should section the fillings out in chunks rather than grinding.   

Specially trained dentists will describe their amalgam removal qualifications and set up on their websites. If you don’t see them advertising this speciality then find a functional, integrated, or biological dentist (search directories) who takes amalgam removal seriously.

 Mercury detoxification

Mercury accumulates in the body, so you may not get relief from any mercury toxicity symptoms immediately after the amalgams are removed. There are protocols that can help flush (chelate) the mercury from your system more efficiently, for example by eating sulphur-rich foods (such as garlic) as mercury particles bind to sulphur to be expelled through the body’s waste disposal organs. 

I recommend working with a naturopath, nutritionist, or health coach (like me!) who has experience with guiding people through mercury detox/amalgam removal experiences.

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 Timing your amalgams removal

Ideally, you would remove any amalgam fillings at least six months before conceiving because if the filling is compromised, mercury can be passed to the fetus. Removing amalgam fillings is not recommended while pregnant as doing so may contribute to miscarriage. It’s also unsafe to remove amalgams while breastfeeding due to an increase in mercury excretion immediately after they are removed. (ref)

Once you have started removing amalgam fillings its a good idea to have all your amalgams removed as quickly as possible, within 30 days. However, you should try to schedule multiple mercury removal appointments on different days of the week. The body’s immune system runs on a 7-day cycle, and is better able to tolerate subsequent procedures if they do NOT fall on the 7th, 14th, 21st or 28th day after your initial appointment. (ref)

Astrologically speaking, Mercury retrogrades can be an auspicious time to review the state of your existing fillings. If you already know that you have compromised amalgam filings and you’ve just been waiting for the ‘right time’ to take action, a Mercury Retrograde is probably it. 

Mercury retrograde is an astrological transit happens about four times a year, whenever the planet Mercury appears to slow down and reverse, from our perspective looking from planet Earth.  Mercury retrograde season has a reputation for frustrating communication difficulties and annoying travel disruptions.

But it can also be a powerful time to review, revise, remove and renew, depending on the sign its retrograding in and its relationship to your birth chart. Consider timing your amalgam removal to coincide with Mercury retrogrades through Virgo and/or your first or sixth house, or with aspects to Saturn or Chiron.

What is the energetic meaning of your amalgam filling?

The meaning of your amalgam filling(s) relates to the specific tooth or teeth where they are located.  You can use my book, The Secret Lives of Teeth, to find out the spiritual/emotional/ancestral meaning of any tooth with a  filling?

Understanding the Tooth Archetype that holds your filling can help you to have a more positive experience with amalgam removal.

Plus you can use the metaphysical toolkit in Chapter 10 to help ensure an uncomplicated outcome with the removal procedure, or to maintain a healthy tooth if you are choosing to keep your amalgam in place for now.

 

Ease your anxiety before you next dental visit

Calm & Confident in the Dental Chair is an interactive workbook for adults who are anxious about seeing the dentist, with accessible exercises, insightful journaling and simple tips to help you show up relaxed and stay at ease through any kind of dental visit.

Calm & Confident in the Dental Chair

Has a dentist told you that your cavities or receding gums are your fault because you are drinking too much Coke, you don’t floss enough or you need to stop breastfeeding your baby? And you know that isn’t true!

I’m a natural oral health coach and I’m not going to blame you or shame you.
The underlying causes of your oral health issues are not your fault!

Nature or nurture, ancestry or environment, free will or systemic oppression, unconscious emotions or the degraded food system are the factors that make your teeth and gums vulnerable to disease.

Even though your tooth decay and gum disease is not your fault, it is within your power to change.

I can help you to turn your oral health around with natural strategies, healthy habits and intuitive insights. 

Dear tooth, I honour the life you shared with me and release you with love.

You can choose to turn your tooth extraction experience into a portal of profoundly transformational healing.

Download the 7-minute long MP3 audio recording to meditate with and/or use as journaling prompts.

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